The Problem:

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<aside> ⭕ We run around in circles, searching for “The Perfect One”.

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<aside> 👩🏽‍⚖️ We judge dates which appear inferior and get ghosted/ rejected by dates to whom we’re attracted - leading to trauma.

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<aside> 🤳🏽 Fuelled by social media’s short-term gratification and ‘superficial dating success’, we evaluate ourselves and our self-worth based on societal opinions of us.

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<aside> 😠 Many of those who get into this 'superficial success’ do not have the relationship skills to sustain the challenges of long-term relationships.

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Problems with Modern Dating:

1. Short-term thinking
2. Self-victimisation
3. Excessive judgement
4. No healthy role models
5. No feedback loops and introspection.
6. Normalisation of disrespect

The Kopi Date Mission: